Here is a slick way to change the ICON's in Windows 3
1. Highlite the ICON you want to change in Program Manager
2. Then click on FILE 
3. When the File Menu extends click on PROPERTIES
4. Click on CHANGE ICON
5. Then when the Select Icon box comes up clicK on FILE NAME
   enter any of the Windows 3 .exe files or for some interesting
   Icons download use W3ICONS.DLL included as a seperate file.
   Note: ***Copy W3ICONS.DLL to the Windows Directory***
6. Click on VIEW NEXT until you see the Icon that you want to use
7. Click on OK which brings you back to the Program Item Properties
   box
8. Click on OK and watch as the ICON changes to what you selected
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  NOTE: The following Windows 3 executable files have multiple Icons in them:
  PROGMAN.EXE
  WINFILE.EXE
  CONTROL.EXE
  SETUP.EXE
  The following Files have one Icon only (The one that shows when installed)
  CARDFILE.EXE
  CLIPBRD.EXE
  CLOCK.EXE
  CALC.EXE
  MSDOS.EXE
  NOTEPAD.EXE
  PBRUSH.EXE
  PIFEDIT.EXE
  PRINTMAN.EXE
  RECORDER.EXE
  SOL.EXE
  TERMINAL.EXE
  WINHELP.EXE
  WINVER.EXE
  WRITE.EXE 