Taken from MIND LINK! on Thu Jun 29 09:28:28 1995 Sun Jun 25 06:04:41 1995 Message : #27899063 From: an270917@anon.penet.fi Group : Usenet.alt.sex Length : 868 words 4827 bytes Subject : HOW TO GET WOMEN TO DO ANYTHING YOU WANT IN BED Read 1 times Msg-ID: <130314Z25061995@anon.penet.fi> Posted: Sun, 25 Jun 1995 13:02:40 UTC Org. : Anonymous forwarding service These guidelines were passed on to me by a woman I met shortly after I broke up with my wife of ten years. This advice has proved invaluable to me over the years since, and I have followed these techniques with total success. During my marriage I thought I was happy, we had a regular, but fairly boring sex life and I didn't know any differrent. Since, I have discovered what woman really want from a man, and how to exploit these needs. I believe that good sex is something that can be passed on from one person to another, and once learned, you will never look back. Follow these simple stages and your woman will do anything for you, she will be putty in your hands, act out your wildest fantasies, fullfil your fetishes, do anything that turns you on. 1. TELL HER ABOUT IT The first stage, and the most important, is to open up the lines of communication. Start by complimenting her, tell her her she looks great, smells lovely, tell her you really fancy her. Then carry this line of rapport into the bedroom. Undress her with the lights on, tell her how beautiful she is. Almost all women have a phobia about something, thier breasts or their butt usually, tell her you don't go for big/small breasts/butts, and hers are just perfect, she will believe you. In bed, pamper her, get her to talk to you. Say things like "What would you you like me to do?", "Do you like this?", she may be inhibited or embarrassed at first, but make it clear that you want to please her, just get her to talk about sex and what she likes, break down any barriers that may be there. If you've made it clear that you think she is beautiful, and you will do anything to please her, and you're not selfish, she will become uninhibited, relaxed and she will respond. Give yourself to her 100% and don't expect anything in return (YET)! 2. LET HER TALK After a while she will get used to talking to you about her feelings and her desires. In my experience, this atmosphere of total openness and honesty will be something new to her. She will become totally uninhibited and relaxed with you and she will think this is wonderful. She will say things like, "I've never met anyone like you before", "I've never been able to talk to a man like this before", later she'll tell you that she loves you and that you're the best lover she's ever had, not because of your technique or the size of your equipment, but because you are so unselfish, considerate, responsive to her needs, and because she feels so uninhibited and free with you. Naturally, she will want to please you too. Her new-found freedom will enable her to ask you what you want, what your own needs are. Tell her, but don't be too adventurous yet. By this stage she will be eager to please you, so tell her what you want, she wants you to tell her. 3. SIMPLY THE BEST The next stage should come naturally. You're the best lover she's ever had, and it's inherent in every womans nature that she must be the best lover that you've had. The fear that she may not be as good as your former lovers becomes an obsession with her, and she will go to any lengths to ensure she's the best. You have established totally open communication together, she knows that she can ask you anything, and now she will start to become curious. She will start asking about your ex's, what they did in bed, how they compare, were they as good as her? This is what you've been waiting for, and if you wait, it will surely come. Tell her about the wild fantasies you used to play out (whether they happened or not), tell her about all those sexual positions and deviations (whether you did or not!). Let your imagination run wild. She won't mind you telling her, she asked because she wanted to know. She will say "Would you like me to do that?", or "Why don't you do to that to me?", she simply must be the best. She will do anything you want. Enjoy. 4. YOU MUST REMEMBER THIS The golden rules are 1. COMMUNICATE 2. GIVE 100% = GET 100%. 3. BE PATIENT This is the central theme of all my experiences and is vital if you are to succeed in you aims. Remember, tell her about it and encourage her to talk. Everything else should fall into place. Good luck, and Good Sex Please post feedback here or e-mail an270917@anon.penet.fi I'd especially like to hear some womens opinions on this, all flames welcome. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- To find out more about the anon service, send mail to help@anon.penet.fi. If you reply to this message, your message WILL be *automatically* anonymized and you are allocated an anon id. Read the help file to prevent this. Please report any problems, inappropriate use etc. to admin@anon.penet.fi.