Hello Mila,


     Hi there this is Don again. I just received your letter and 
the little song that you like so well. I am glad to know that our 
communication line is still open. I can understand the tremendous 
let down you must have felt when you were counting on something so 
much. I really understand. So I guess it's fair to take a few 
minutes to explain things a little ok?

     You see Mila, the questionnaire you received is supposed to 
be sent without your knowledge of who has specifically sent it. 
That way the answers will not be slanted in order to please a 
certain person and will give a more honest reflection of the 
person who fills it out. It is also an important document used for 
immigration purposes. If you had taken the time to read it 
thoroughly you would have seen an important statement on the last 
page. Any falsification of the questions may be used as grounds 
for deportation by the U.S. immigration service. And all questions 
must be answered solely by the person to whom it is sent. The 
questionnaire is very revealing as you may now understand. 

     Mila the whole purpose for my writing to women in your 
country was is that I am earnestly searching for a woman who will 
be my loving wife; the mother of my children; and the person with 
whom I may share the blessings of God's good earth. Peaceful and 
happy living comes with real responsibility. I must know that not 
only are we compatible, but that the woman I marry is truly 
responsible and not of a casual, or lacking attitude in important 
matters. The truth is, by not taking on the responsibility of this 
important little questionnaire yourself gave me the clear 
indication that you are not responsible enough, at this time, to 
take on the duties of a home and marriage. Yet that responsible 
attitude will come with time and experience.
I cannot though, in all honesty, work so very hard in saving money 
for a trip to visit you for a casual little get together. I can do 
such things in my own country without having the same burden. 
Marrying outside of your country and immigrating to the U.S. is 
something that is to be taken with all seriousness and handled in 
a truly responsible manner. And I must have clear indication that 
the woman I consider for marriage is wholely responsible as well 
as compatible before I make the long trip to her country. I think 
you can understand these things Mila without my being long winded
about it. 

     God Bless you Mila and your family and friends. And may the 
Good Lord Guide you in your heart along the true path to 
understanding and a happy life in the future. There are good men 
in the world that are suited quite well for you Mila, if not at 
this time, then in the future. So let us look at the time we have 
been communicating not as a loss but as a gain, with understanding 
and growth, as we both proceed to our land of milk and honey.


                         Your good friend from Crockett,

                                   Donald.